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One of the biggest changes in our budget is the need to account for an additional person when it comes to family outings.

Everything from plane tickets, to dinners out to attending our local hockey team now have three people instead of two. Though this is something we obviously expected with a child, it was nice to enjoy the early days!

Gone are the newborn days when she would quietly sleep through the odd dinner out or stay snuggled in my arms, usually asleep during a local hockey game. The little girl is a full grown toddler who now demands her own meals and requires her own seat and if we’re not careful, it can get crazy expensive.

While there are certain things we can’t do anything about, like extra seat for airplanes there are many other areas you can save on.

Meals Out

Eating out isn’t a huge part of our lives (I’d much rather entertain at home) it does happen occasionally. When possible, we opt to look for restaurants that not only have a kids menu but offer discounts for kids such as kids eat free.

Growing up we would go to a restaurant where they offered free Shirley Temples for kids and my parents had to pay $0.10/pound of body weight for kids under 12. Though restaurants probably can’t get away with literally weighing kids in the restaurant anymore, there are still many places the have kids eat free with the purchase of a regular entree.

Online Deals

Online sites such as Groupon can be a great place to find coupons and deals for a family that makes an otherwise unattainable event, possible. This can include things like buying discounted restaurant (I often buy gift certificates for our favorite restaurants when they come up at 50% off) or deals on ticked events.

Take Advantage of Specials

Our local movie theater caters to families during regular school breaks such as spring break and Christmas break by putting on discounted days and promos like buy one ticket get one 50% off. During the rest of the year they offer a cheap ticket price on Tuesday. Going to the movies on Tuesday if the only way I pay, especially with children. If you don’t know, call and ask!

Friends of ours always take advantage of our local stage theater by taking their kids to ”pay what you can” night. Basically you show up on the first Tuesday of the seasonal performance, stand in line and pay whatever you can. Tickets normally start at $40 per person but on this night you can pay as much or little as you want.When you have a family and a budget this sort of event is perfect. This is something the theater has always done but never makes a big public announcement.

Good deals usually require some digging!

Membership Discounts

Sometimes it pays to have a kid (in terms of savings acquired).

If I wanted a membership to our local rec center I would be looking at $600 per year as an individual or I could get a family price (no limit on children) for $750 for the year. My husband, daughter and I can all capitalize on the gym, pool, rink and hundreds of classes for only $150 more per year and as our family grows the price stays the same (as is it locked in as long as you renew annually). This membership also gives us some ”free” events to partake in during the year when we’re looking to have a little family fun without breaking the bank.

How do you save on family fun?

It’s so easy to complain that you don’t have time to cook. You’re too busy. It’s so much easier eating out. The kids have demanding schedules, or you work too much. These excuses can be physically and financially destructive. The truth is that no matter how busy you are, you have time to cook. You just have to prioritize it, and feeding your family home cooked meals should be a priority for your physical and financial health.

Save It for Special Occasions

Decades ago, eating out was a special occasion. Having the occasional dinner out with your family won’t put you in the poor house. It’s the habitual routine of picking up dinner on your way home from work, running through the drive-thru with the kids at lunchtime or stopping by the bakery for breakfast each morning that makes your piggy bank run low. In most cases, you’ll spend at least $20 – $25 to feed a family of four, but that price can go much higher. That money can be stretched for several meals by making a trip to the grocery store instead. Try cutting back on dinners out to once a month. You’ll be surprised at the savings.

You Don’t Have to Be a Chef

Don’t worry if cooking isn’t your forte. Your family doesn’t expect a gourmet meal at home. To throw together a quick breakfast in the mornings, keep English muffins, deli meat and fresh fruit on hand. There are many healthy cereal options, too. Lunches prepared at home can consist of a healthy salad, a tasty sandwich or some hearty soup when the weather is cold. Dinner needn’t be a three-course meal. Sloppy Joes made with ground turkey and served with sweet potato fries will please kids and adults.

Start With a Plan

Your biggest hurdle to overcome is a lack of planning. Every weekend, plan all of your meals for the week. Shop for the ingredients, and use things you have in the cupboards or freezer to cut down on your grocery bill. Use your slow cooker whenever possible for a no-muss, no-fuss cooking experience.

Once you get into the routine of creating meal plans with foods that your family will actually eat, you’ll wonder why you ever bothered with all those trips to your local restaurants. You’ll be healthier. You’ll have more money in your wallet. Finally, you’ll have more time together with your family in your own kitchen. What’s more valuable than that?

Saving on Family Fun